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The lies we believe as women

The lies we tell ourselves are often in secret, sometimes with or without our knowledge. The lies that we believe in secret often damage our self esteem, and cause us to assume, doubt and to fear. They start off as little lies, but soon root itself deep into our hearts, so much so, that it can completely consume and control us, and cause us to behave in an unhealthy manner. Over the years I have had to face certain lies that became internalized insecurities, which in turn stopped me from living… Read More

Online fakers

Over the last week and a bit I have been following an online thread regarding Instagram fakers who buy; their followers, likes, and comments. Wait what? Yes, guys you can actually buy: Instagram followers, automatic likes for your posts, and comments to make it look like you’re a somebody. Maybe the idea of having big (yet fake) online following makes those fakers feel like it will attract more brands, and attract more followers because of the big (fake) following. It’s so strange to me, because although I knew it was… Read More

ONLINE HONESTY | ONLINE – OFFLINE

Have you ever wondered to yourself after casually stalking someone online, and thought to yourself: “I wonder what they’re like in person?” Then upon meeting them in #reallife they’re not quite what you expected them to be like in person, maybe in a good way, or in a bad way. Not everyone truly portrays the true essence of who they are online. Some people prefer to show a highlight reel of their lives online, whilst others show every facet and detail of their life online, and then there are some who… Read More

ONLINE HONESTY | PART 3

For those of you who have been following the Online Honesty posts over here, and here , you will know that I touch on the fun and the not so fun side to living online. I share openly, and I pose some thoughts and questions, as a means of starting a conversation – in hopes that we can change up the online game, by being healthy influencers both online and offline. I have been chewing and mulling over on the following thoughts : COMPARISON COMPETITION CONFIDENCE aka : The three… Read More

Vision dreaming, & some goal making

We did it – we time traveled into 2017. Another year, a fresh start, and one step closer towards death ! How exciting ?! Ha! Most of us will step into the year with a vague idea of our plans and goals for the year to come. Whilst others may feel a bit apprehensive , and feel like they’re stepping into darkness, or into a dark abyss, or into a different dimension #strangerthings (Ps: anyone else excited for Season two ?!) I think it’s always a good idea to sit… Read More